I wasn’t out and about in the blogosphere much yesterday, so I am just now noticing all of the buzz surrounding the “no children allowed” policy at Johnson and Johnson’s Camp Baby. Quite frankly, I am amazed at the amount of negative response from top mommy bloggers! Even while I have my own nursing baby (and as you all know, five other kiddos, to boot), I completely understand why this policy was put in place… This time is meant as a retreat for moms to network, mingle and have fun. As much as I love having my babies with me everywhere, I am looking forward to this short time away!
I can, however, understand the frustration that some moms share, about not having adequate details or J&J not doing their homework. I was not once asked if I had a nursing baby, and nowhere on the invitation does it say that the kiddos were not invited. (I will say that the invitation was pretty clear about this event being a “retreat” for Mommies.) Fortunately, I asked about it before making my travel plans, and was not surprised by this policy later, like some moms seem to have been.
I will give J&J props for handling this situation with so much tact, given the negativity stirred up by many. The camp organizer sent out a very nice email, and I have seen many comments from her in various posts regarding the situation. Here is an excerpt from her email:
I wanted to personally reach out to you in response to what happened yesterday in the mommy blogosphere. What a learning process it has been for all of us.…because this is an event created for education and networking, we felt, that you could not take full advantage of the agenda, while caring for your children. This was probably the hardest call we made and certainly have learned a lot through this process. In the future, we will be much more overt about these decisions but we tried to communicate this as questions arose….
Please know you can always reach out to us. We are listening, and learning and continue to value your community’s opinions and insights.
With this being their very first event for mommy bloggers, I think Johnson and Johnson and their PR firm, Ruder Finn, have done a pretty good job. Sure, there are some kinks that need to be worked out for next time… Like, perhaps, welcoming nursing babies, or even planning the event on the weekend, so as to make finding childcare for the older kids more doable. (They may need to find some more adult crafts for the agenda, too! )
For the record, I am not in any way saying that I am glad that the kiddos were not invited. I am thrilled, however, that I was one of the mommy bloggers who were chosen, and even more excited that everything is being taken care of for me. They are not asking anything in return… I’m not even required to blog about it all! (But, of course I am!) I am looking forward to meeting some of my blogging buddies and making new friends.
Oh, and for those of you who are curious… Ray (aka Daddy) will be caring for the children while I’m away. Yep, he took the three days off of work and has been very supportive of my attending Camp Baby! And, believe it or not, Noah will live without me for a few days… He will still get mommy’s milk from a bottle, and he eats plenty of fruits and veggies now!























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This was very interesting to read, especially after reading a lot of negative buzz about it from other sites.
You are just too sweet, you always find the best of everything, and that’s why I like you so much! You make a great point though, if it says “retreat for mommies”, it does sound like you should leave kids home. Then again – they failed by naming it “Baby Camp”, it should have been “Mommy Camp”
Either way, I wish I was going there too!
Thanks for commenting on my site! I enjoyed your take on this situation, too.
~Viv
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AW…enjoy your “mommy’s time off!” I’m jealous, and I see your point of view. What a great hubby you have, btw…
Thanks for stopping by my blog and commenting on the Camp Baby post. I was impressed with Lori when I spoke with her yesterday and again with today’s response to the blogstorm. I won’t be at Camp Baby, but am looking forward to hearing about it afterward. Would love your thoughts as well, just drop me a note at sgetgood@getgood.com
Oh gosh! All I have to say is that I appreciate the times that you can take your nursing babes, but it’s also WONDERFUL to have those times where it IS without kids (I have to say this might be what I am looking forward to most with the Disney trip!!!!!)
Steph
I’m going too…can’t wait to meet you in person! =)
Amy
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I’m going, too. My girls are 3 and 5 1/2 and will be in school while I’m gone and my husband was all, “You’ve GOT to go!” He was very supportive and encouraging and it will be good for him to be in charge for a few nights.
I am sure Johnson & Johnson will learn from the mistakes made this first time. It’s very difficult to please everyone and I’m sure there are things they just didn’t think about (obviously that some moms would want to bring their babies) with them.
I’m so out of the nursing years that it didn’t even occur to me, I’ll admit it, but I also viewed the initial invite, although not very detailed, did not make it sound like this was a mom and child gathering.
I’m sure it will be a great time and it will be a learning experience for all of us!
I also had no idea what was going on until I got the email earlier today from J&J. I’m sorry about what happened, but am thrilled to go and meet other mommy bloggers.
I wish I’d been invited (left out again, just like in high school…), but the no baby policy would have grounded me anyway since Jasper is such a mommy’s boy.
I can’t wait to hear about it from everyone! Have fun for the rest of us and leave all the political nonsense behind…
Thanks for your great post! I totally agree with you. I’m thrilled to be invited to J&J’s event and can’t wait to meet other Mommy bloggers! I totally feel for the those that are unable to attend as I know I would have been crushed – as a Mom with a 2 year old and breastfed 3 month old I’m so excited to attend an event for Moms like me.
Obviously there was a disconnect between them originally organizing this event and fully understanding the unique Mommy blogger audience. Many of us juggle being a full time mom, even have young babies at home, and run our websites in our spare minutes. Communication could have clearly been better during the registration process – but it is somewhat unfair to expect our unique Mom situations to be totally catered to…. We might think nothing of bringing our children to a work event, but as is common practice in Corporate America, bringing our babies to work is not typically an option once maternity leave ends!
My husband is taking off work for me to attend – and he’ll be juggling the 2 year old and the 3 month old baby. The little guy will have to handle the bottle while Mommy is away – and I’ll be sneaking away to pump during the conference – just like I would have to do if I had gone back to work full time and wanted to breastfeed.
I’m optimistic that this will be a super learning event for J&J and the Mom blogger attendees – and that next year J&J will potentially add child care and welcome the inclusion of nursing newborns.
Can’t wait to meet all of you in person!
I agree with so much that you said. When I read “retreat” in the invitation I assumed it was a getaway for moms, not kids. I’ll be pumping, but I think my mamma’s boy can handle a few days without me.
It actually works better for me during the week. My mom watches the children during the day while I work. She’ll just have to come and go a little early/late. My husband won’t have to take off of work.
He also didn’t have to think twice and said “Go!”
What fun we are going to have!
I’m looking forward to meeting you. I think that this is going to be a great learning experience for all involved.
Carmen
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