A Timely Reminder From @daddysweeney

by Christine - From Dates to Diapers on March 24, 2012

In the middle of my world of chaos, with the daily routine of life as a mom of many, it’s so easy for me to get bogged down with my to-do lists and busy calendar, what I lack in comparison to others. I tend to lose sight of the blessings in my life and what is really important.

Can you relate?

I recently read a post written by my friend’s husband about being grateful for our blessings. His musings were a great reminder for me to stop and smell the roses and not to take my family, and the rest what God so freely gave me, for granted. Thank you for that, Bill!

I truly desire to spend less time worrying about the stuff that doesn’t matter. I’d like to focus more on setting a Godly example for my kids, playing with them as I watch them grow, laughing with my husband, even the simple act of just staring at the stars or noticing those roses.

Talk back!
How do you, as a busy parent, slow down and remember to dwell on what is truly important and not on that which is fleeting?

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I’ve Lost My Bloggy Groove, But I Want It Back

by Christine - From Dates to Diapers on February 1, 2011

*Long post ahead. Please bear with me and stick it out until the end… I have a couple of questions for you.**

I’ve been keeping a web log – aka blogging – for almost six years. I began writing online mainly as a way to stay in touch with one lovely friend who moved far, far away. This friend begged and pleaded with me and, after nearly succumbing to the excuse that I had not the time, I logged on to homeschoolblogger.com and chose the username and blog ID YoungMommy.

Occasionally I would talk about products and services that I loved, but I wrote mostly about what was going on in our family, life with four kiddos (all under the age of four), my pregnancy with baby #5, our homeschooling and travel adventures, and anything else that struck my fancy. Poems, short quotes, personal stories and pictures graced the virtual pages of Organized Chaos.

Never did I imagine that, after only a few short months, not only did my beautiful friend check in often, but I had many consistent readers and would eventually be sought out by companies to help create buzz around their products. I snagged the handle YoungMommy on Twitter and thus began my venture in to product reviews and the new world (for me, anyway) of social media.

After much thought, and a few reviews on Organized Chaos, I made the decision to begin From Dates to Diapers – A blog that would house my product reviews, details about contests that I found around the blogosphere, and perhaps even host a contest or two of my own. After all, I didn’t want to inundate my Organized Chaos readers with “a bunch of commercials,” since they were, in fact, reading to hear about the next brilliant thing one of my kiddos said and not to hear about the diaper ointment I was using.

A couple of months went by. Many blog posts were written on both Organized Chaos and From Dates to Diapers. More than a few diapers were changed and a only few dates were enjoyed. I realized that keeping up with two sites was near impossible with my commitment to quality and dedication to my family. So I made the decision to merge the two blogs. And, now we have From Dates to Diapers as you know it.

You’ve seen me through two more pregnancies, rejoiced with me over the birth of Noah and the birth of Timothy, heard about birthday parties, vacations, bad days and good. I’ve shared our school schedules and lamented with you over the fact that I am so not crafty and hate to cook. You’ve seen bits of blog trips, squeed with me over meeting celebrities and faithfully watched my appearances on news programs.

I’ve blogged because I love to write, I love to talk about my family, and I love the connection I have with other women on and offline. It’s been fun these last five-and-a-half years and I have met some amazing people… people who have become some of my best friends. I am indebted to you for making From Dates to Diapers what it is today!

My love for blogging hasn’t changed, necessarily, but now I feel stuck. These last four months have been spent enjoying my new little baby and watching him grow and interact with his siblings. My older kiddos and I have had long days of school and spent lots of time just being together. Even though most of my writing took place after my kiddos were in bed before, I guess you could say that I got out of the habit of spending time virtually composing my thoughts mainly because I needed every bit of sleep that Timothy would allow me.

But, while I was spending almost all of my “free” time catching up on sleep, I fear many of you gave up on me. I know I could publish a post about what we did on any particular day, I would still like to write out Timothy’s birth story for posterity, and I have a plethora of products I need to write about, but I’d love to hear what you want to see and read here on From Dates to Diapers in the next few weeks. Do you have any pressing questions for me? Something you’d like for me to talk about?

It’s time for me to find my bloggy groove again.

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Truth

by Christine - From Dates to Diapers on September 28, 2010

dandelion,dandelionIf you know me in real life, follow me on Twitter, or are a friend of mine on Facebook, you already know that this pregnancy has been very hard on me.

What you may not know is that it took me a long time to get used to the idea of being pregnant. It wasn’t that I didn’t want another baby – I just didn’t want to be pregnant. I was just beginning to feel good again, after having the Mirena removed (which had been the cause of so many emotional and physical issues), when bam! I’m emotional, cranky, and just plain miserable again. Once again, I’m not feeling myself.

I’m praying that the real me will return once Baby arrives. Until then I have to remind myself daily of the truth, when it’s so easy to believe the lies…

Lie :: I am so lazy
Truth :: While it feels like I am always laying around, in my pj’s most days, I have been given the order to “stay off my feet” and “take it easy.” My ankles begin to ache and swell, my uterus begins to spaz and I overdo it when I do begin to exert any shred of energy I may have. No excuses, just truth.

Lie :: My children are suffering by my laziness lack of energy
Truth :: My children and I have had some great snuggle and story time, lessons in patience have have been learned (by all of us), and my older kids have had to step up a bit when it comes to helping out around the house. These things would not have been accomplished, to this degree, without this mandatory “down time.” Dare I say this season will prove to have been good for us all, in the long run?

Lie :: I hate being pregnant
Truth :: I hate the way I feel while being pregnant. This time. I LOVE the fact that I am carrying a baby. A baby who is healthy and will be loved and cuddled. I am extremely blessed to have been given so many beautiful and healthy children to teach, train and love.

Lie :: I’m no fun to be around
Truth :: I am emotional. I am cranky. I am tired. I am in physical pain. The tiniest things can bring me to tears, as quickly as the big things. I snap at my kids and bark at my husband. I am not proud of this, nor do I care to make excuses. Instead, I pray daily that God would not only help me forget about myself, but that He would give my family and friends grace to love me in spite of myself.

TRUTH ::

He said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.”
Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses,
so that Christ’s power may rest on me.

(2 Corinthians 12:9)

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The Greatest of These Is Love

by Christine - From Dates to Diapers on June 14, 2010

heart in lightsOur pastor is preaching a series on brotherly love, directly from 1 Corinthians 13. Yesterday morning, as I sat in my seat, soaking up Pastor Kevin’s words – words spoken as if they were just for me – I couldn’t help but reflect on God’s love and how I fall short of demonstrating His love through my actions.

As adults we have established a certain code of etiquette, if you will, of which kindness and respect is most often included. We refer to our elders as Sir and Ma’am. We apologetically say excuse me when we’ve caused an interruption. If you are anything like me, you are quick to say I’m sorry if you have done wrong, and you’re happy to make those around you feel comfortable.

As a mother I strive to teach my children how to behave properly. I expect them to be kind and considerate to each other, their peers, and their elders. Rude and inappropriate behavior, unkind words, and prideful attitudes never go unchecked.

But if I have not love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal.

I think of myself as a fairly considerate person, but all too often I am unkind, impatient, and downright rude – lacking in love. I yell at my children and snap at my husband. I complain about how inconsiderate my neighbors are and neglect to treat them with compassion. I harbor bitterness towards those who have hurt or offended me (or my children) and show no true forgiveness.

Yesterday, as I sat in church, the Spirit gently reminded me that God is love and through His grace alone can I truly love.

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

How good-natured and amiable is Christian charity (love)! How excellent would Christianity appear to the world, if those who profess it were more under this Divine principle, and paid due regard to the command on which its blessed Author laid the chief stress! Let us ask whether this Divine love dwells in our hearts. Has this principle guided us into becoming behaviour to all men? Are we willing to lay aside selfish objects and aims? Here is a call to watchfulness, diligence, and prayer. -Matthew Henry

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I Know

March 18, 2010

Tweet I have a new life growing inside of my womb. A precious baby to be added to our gaggle of children. Soon-to-be-seven children for whom I am responsible. To teach. To train. To guide. To love. To nurture. AND I’m tired. I’m overwhelmed. BUT I know that God has a perfect plan. I know [...]

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Sweet to the Soul

March 16, 2010

Tweet Have you considered how much your words can affect others? Our words have the power to build up or tear down, to encourage or humiliate, to bless or crush. Bless someone – your husband, your children, a friend, a stranger – with your words today. Pleasant words are as an honeycomb, sweet to the [...]

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To have a friend, you must first be one

January 4, 2010

Tweet I’ve always had friends. Old friends. New friends. Acquaintances. Pals. Accomplices. Those who are ever-present cheerleaders – my biggest supporters. In fact, I am married to my best friend. But, I’ve let friends down. I’ve lost touch with those who once meant so much to me. More than once have I let stupid things [...]

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No Words

December 14, 2009

Tweet The house is finally quiet after a fun, but long and busy day. I’m trying to get caught up on some work, but I can’t manage to get past just sitting here, listening to each of my six babies breath as they sleep. I can’t concentrate on work. I can’t seem to focus on [...]

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My Big Family

December 10, 2009

Tweet Lo, children are a heritage of the Lord, and the fruit of the womb is his reward. As arrows are in the hand of a mighty man, so are children of the youth. Happy is the man whose quiver is full of them: they shall not be ashamed, but they shall speak with the [...]

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Sinking

August 13, 2009

Tweet Last night I had a dream. I was wading with Noah in a beautiful lake of crystal clear water. Family and friends were close-by, playing and splashing and swimming. Noah had a graham cracker in each hand, and was quite content hanging out with his mama in the shallow water. Next thing I know, [...]

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A Simpler Life

August 11, 2009

Tweet The Amish are very devout in their faith. They believe in the literal interpretation and application of Scripture as the Word of God. They take seriously the Biblical commands to separate themselves from the things of the world. They believe worldliness can keep them from being close to God, and can introduce influences that [...]

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Ageless

July 2, 2009

Tweet I am a daughter of the King and will live in eternity with Him! I not only know that I am beautiful in my Father’s eyes, but my husband tells me every day that I am beautiful and desirable. My kiddos help me feel free and vibrant, as they keep me on my toes [...]

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I didn’t think it would happen to me…

June 24, 2009

Tweet Ask any one of my family members or friends and they will tell you that I am not typically the type of mom who coddles her children. When one of my boys falls, I tell them to get up and keep running. My kiddos (no more babies here) play in the tub while I [...]

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Summertime Learning

June 4, 2009

Tweet As a homeschooling family we enjoy so much freedom. The freedom to take a day off here and there. The freedom to “do” school on a Saturday, a Sunday, or even an observed holiday. The freedom to work on math problems at the beach, have a science lesson on the way through the Nevada [...]

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I Love My Job!

March 6, 2009

Tweet I love being a mom. It is by far the most rewarding thing I have ever done. From each morning, as I see the look of wonder on my kiddos’ faces as they look forward to a new day, to each night as I tuck them in and they whisper, “I love you, Mommy,” [...]

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Time for Another?

March 5, 2009

Tweet Mommies and daddies have different relationships with their kiddos… From conception, we mommies share a one-of-a-kind, entirely unique, emotional and physical bond with our babies… After all, they live in us, and are a part of our very being, for 9 long months! And then, after birth, if we are so blessed, they nurse [...]

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Laugh Out Loud!

February 27, 2009

Tweet LAUGHTER: Convulsive merriment; an expression of mirth peculiar to man, consisting in a peculiar noise and configuration of features, with a shaking of the sides and expulsion of breath. (Webster’s 1828 Dictionary) All I can hear right now, as my children play in the backyard, is uninhibited laughter. You know, there is really nothing [...]

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Another trip?

February 1, 2009

Tweet Ray and I are having a blast, exploring the City of Brotherly Love, but boy, do I miss my babies! It has been hard being away from my kiddos so much lately. Not only do I miss my kiddos, but I feel extremely guilt for leaving them for days at a time… So, I [...]

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Do you ever…

January 17, 2009

Tweet try to see the world through your children’s eyes? stare at your spouse while s/he sleeps? make pancakes for dinner, just because they sound good? spend all day in your jammies, cuddling on the couch with your kiddos? regret not asking a question? surprise yourself by doing something you never thought you would? Do [...]

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"The days may be long, but the years are short!"

September 14, 2008

Tweet This week, at times, I felt a bit more overwhelmed than usual. The responsibilities of being a supportive and loving wife, taking care of (and teaching) six kiddos, tending to our home, balancing our budget, and planning for the future were quite exhausting. This week my days seemed long, as if they never intended [...]

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