Great Valentine’s Day Ideas for the Whole Family

by Christine - From Dates to Diapers on January 28, 2014

Valentine Ideas for the Whole Family

Valentine’s Day can be a day to celebrate your love for each other as an entire family. There are so many great activities and goodies that everyone can enjoy together. Here are some great ideas. (Most of them incredibly easy for this craft-challenged mama!)

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Ray and I have never really gone out and made a big deal of Valentine’s Day. It really is just another day for us to show our love and appreciation for each other, as we try to do every day. Actually, just a couple of days later is a big anniversary for us. This year, on February 16th, Ray and I will have been an official couple for 17 years! SEVENTEEN YEARS!!!

So, on Valentine’s Day this year, like most, we will be staying in. But, that doesn’t mean we can’t make the day special or still have a romantic evening of our own. I’ve gathered just a few ideas on Pinterest to inspire the same for you.

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What do you and your family do for Valentine’s Day? Any special traditions?

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Keeping the Spark Alive in your Marriage

by Guest on November 30, 2013

Long-term relationships and marriages take work. There’s no easy way to gain a strong relationship, however there are small things to try every day to keep things going well. Here are just a few.

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Spend time together

Spending quality time together is very important. Even though you might think you spend lots of time with your partner, much of it will be taken up with everyday chores, childcare or other commitments. Set aside time every week to spend just with each other. If possible, choose some activities you both really enjoy rather than just going to the same restaurant every time.

Meet up with friends

Seeing friends together can help a relationship to grow stronger as you can see your partner through the eyes of others. The way we behave with our friends is not the same as the way we behave with our partners, so seeing friends brings a bit of variety to a relationship. It also allows you to do something different from the everyday routine and gives you both the chance to have fun.

Talk to each other

Communicating means really having time to talk and listen to each other, rather than just saying a few words in passing. How often do you talk in any depth? Do you mainly only text your partner when you want something from the shop? Try and make more time to communicate with each other.

couple in vineyard

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Spend time alone

Spending time alone or with your own friends will give you a chance to grow in a personal sense and bring more to your relationship. Couples who do everything together risk getting bored of each other quickly. Make time with your own friends and work towards your own goals.

Get bored

From time to time, you will get bored! Not everything can feel like the first rush of romance after meeting through eHarmony. There’s no need to panic that the relationship has failed if you’re not totally enamored of each other all the time. People change over time and it’s important to cherish what you love about your partner at every stage in the relationship.

Create your own happiness

Happy couples are able to work together to keep their relationship strong. If you rely on your partner to make you happy, the relationship will not last. Both partners need to be able to feel complete by themselves in order to be complete together. Don’t put too much pressure on each other to fit in to a particular idea – create your own goals and discuss them together.

Respect each other

Respect is very important for a strong relationship. If you met your partner through online dating, you will hopefully have the same wants and needs. If you don’t have respect for your partner’s goals, the relationship may become strained. Talk about the things which make you feel fulfilled and listen to each other. A respectful partner can help the other to be the person they want to be.

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A Valentine’s Date IN

by Christine - From Dates to Diapers on February 5, 2013

Ray and I are big advocates of having regular date nights, but we’ve also discovered how fun and romantic it is to plan and prepare a meal together at home. One of our favorite meals out is Shrimp Portofino, with a nice glass of wine, so we decided to see if we could re-create this fabulous meal at home – for much less.

shrimp portofino ingredients

We purchased everything we needed at Walmart to create this delicious evening, complete with a scrumptious chocolate dessert. You, too, can create a romantic evening at home, WITHOUT hiring a babysitter!

Shrimp Portofino recipe

SHRIMP PORTOFINO
recipe adapted from food.com

Ingredients:
3 tablespoons olive oil
2 tablespoons fresh garlic, finely chopped
1 cup white mushroom, sliced
20 large shrimp, de-veined and tails removed
2 teaspoons salt
1 1/2 teaspoons black pepper
1/2 cup lemon juice, freshly squeezed
4 cups baby spinach, fresh
3 cups heavy cream
1/2 cup white wine
1 lb angel hair pasta, cooked
pine nuts

Directions:
1. In a large, pre-heated skillet, add olive oil, garlic and mushrooms. Sauté until mushrooms and garlic start to brown.
2. Add shrimp, sprinkle with salt and pepper and sauté until shrimp turn white.
3. Add spinach, lemon juice and white wine to sauté pan. Stir until all ingredients are mixed together well. Simmer for 1 minute.
4. Add heavy cream and bring to a boil and stir for 3 minutes while boiling.
5. Remove from heat, add pasta and pine nuts, and stir until pasta is hot and all ingredients are mixed well.
6. Enjoy with your sweetheart!

There are many easy and inexpensive ways to celebrate Valentine’s Day together, if you decide to stay in, even if you do not prepare a meal…

  • Watch a romantic movie after the kiddos are in bed.
  • Prepare a romantic “picnic” in
  • Create a fun get-to-know-your-spouse game

How do you plan to spend Valentine’s Day?

As a participant in the Walmart Moms Program, I’ve received a product gift card and compensation for my time and efforts in creating this post. All thoughts and opinions are my own.

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My Wedding Ring Debacle

by Christine - From Dates to Diapers on January 29, 2013

It’s not surprising that my tastes and likings changed so very much over the years. Doesn’t everyone’s? Sure, my wedding ring held sentimental value, but the idea of a wrap around a solitaire, set in yellow gold, didn’t quite fit my style after ten years.

Ray agreed that a new wedding set would be the perfect gift for our tenth wedding anniversary. For months we searched for the perfect set – a vintage look and feel, set in white gold. I found exactly what I had been looking for on a chance trip to the mall one afternoon, just a few short months after we celebrated our anniversary. It was all that I had imagined AND it was a good price – just within our budget!

The set was a bit big for my finger, but we didn’t bother sizing or soldering it, simply because I became pregnant with Timmy shortly after and knew my finger would swell to the perfect size.

And, it did. But, I am a procrastinator and I waited way too long to get it done. Perhaps if I had already had it soldered I wouldn’t have lost the band, thanks to Timmy. Who knows? Maybe I would have lost both at the same time.

Shortly after my band went missing, the middle diamond clean popped off of the engagement ring! We were at dinner when I slammed my arm down on the table. I noticed only moments later that the diamond was gone. Our entire party searched and searched until my sister found the solitary diamond in a groove in the floor next to our table. I was certainly grateful to have the diamond in my possesion again, but I didn’t imagine I would have the ring repaired anytime soon, so I was clearly upset.

broken ring

It wasn’t necessarily the ring set that I was mourning, but the idea of not having anything on my finger to symbolize my union with Ray. My finger felt naked. It WAS naked.

We had been on the lookout for a replacement set (since, even if I were to repair the piece I have, it would be incomplete), and I knew I wanted it to be similar to the anniversary set Ray purchased for me, with a vintage look and one minor change – I wanted the center diamond to be princess cut.

I managed to find a beautiful Cubic Zirconium set in Sterling Silver (from Walmart!) that will most certainly fill the void. It is elegant and was affordable, which was exactly what I was hoping for, especially since I run the risk of one of my littles running off with a piece, or two!

walmart cz bridal set in sterling silver

 

As a participant in the Walmart Moms Program, I’ve received product and compensation for my time and efforts in creating this post. All thoughts and opinions are my own.

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The Vow :: More Than Just A Movie

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My sisters and I recently went and saw the movie The Vow, with Rachel McAdams and Channing Tatum. I laughed and cried and we all left the theater expressing how much we liked the movie. But, the movie left a lasting impression on me. The actors who appeared in the movie were not what made [...]

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Making Your Husband A Priority

March 17, 2010

Okay Dads, now I know there are many of you who visit often, but this post is for my fellow Mom friends, so will you excuse us for a minute, please? There are plenty of articles written about how to be a good mom, but as busy moms I think we tend to forget, at [...]

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The Five Languages of Love

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When Ray and I were newlyweds, we studied a book called The Five Love Languages. In this book, Gary Chapman explains the different ways in which people react to others, based on actions and words, thus resulting in changes in our “love tanks.” Chapman spent an entire chapter in his book explaining how the love [...]

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10 Years Ago

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We became husband and wife on that squeltering August evening, ten years ago today. I vowed to love, honor, and cherish him for all the days of my life. We became a new family. Just the two of us. We began a journey. A wonderful journey. And now, ten years later, I love him more [...]

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First Kiss

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Over the course of more than two years, he had become my best friend. Letters and phone calls, sent over the many miles that separated us, created a bond that was unbreakable. 11:47pm February 17, 1997 Tonight, the miles that typically separate us did no longer. He was here with me, if only for a [...]

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Only then

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We stopped for donuts on the way to church this morning. We were running late, as usual, so Ray ran in to make the purchase while I sat in the car with the kiddos. “There are a lot of people dressed for church, Mom,” Zach observed. “There are, aren’t there?” “Yes, and a lot of [...]

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